The Man in the Gray Flannel Skirt

Author(s): Jon-Jon Goulian
Original Publish Date: May 17, 2011
eAudio - unabridged
Audio (9.48 hours)
Product Number: Z100023699
Released: May 17, 2011
Business Term: Purchase
ISBN: #9780307876768
Narrator/s: Rob Shapiro
Publisher: Books on Tape
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The vibrant, funny, and heartwarming story of an outcast who becomes an odd man in If you have ever felt like a misfit in school or been paralyzed by your family's imposing expectations, if you have ever obsessed about your appearance or panicked about choosing a career path, if you have ever wondered if every single thing to which your body is exposed, from egg yolks to X-rays, might harm you, then you may be surprised to find a kindred spirit in The Man in the Gray Flannel Skirt. Growing up in sunny La Jolla, California, Jon-Jon Goulian was a hyperneurotic kid who felt out of place wherever he turned, and who, in his own words, was forever on the verge of "caving in beneath the pressures of modern life." From his fear of competition to his fear of pimples, from his fear of sex to his fear of saturated fat, the range and depth of Jon-Jon's phobias were seemingly boundless. With his two older brothers providing a sterling example he believed he could never live up to, and his stern grandfather, the political philosopher Sidney Hook, continually calling him to account for his intellectual failure, Jon-Jon, feeling pressed against the wall, wracked with despair, and dizzy with insecurity, instinctively resorted, for reasons that became clear to him only many years later, to a most ingenious scheme for keeping conventional expectations at bay: women's clothing! Ingenious, perhaps, but woefully ineffective, as Jon-Jon discovers, again and again, that behind his skirt, leggings, halter top, and high heels, he's still as wildly neurotic, and as wracked with anxiety, as he's always been. In this hilarious and heartfelt memoir, Jon-Jon Goulian's witty and exuberant voice shines through, as he comes to terms with what it means to truly be yourself.

Professional reviews

"This talkative, self-indulgent, and mad memoir of a man born to great privilege is a vain, wandering waste. Goulian, now in his late 40s, has done little with his life--despite having had all the advantages. What is intended to be interesting is that he is a heterosexual who adorns his tattooed body with lip gloss, sarongs, halter tops, and perfume. However, the shallowness of the work poses the question: Why should we care? Rob Shapiro narrates in an entertaining, direct, and thoughtful way, conveying by his tone much of the self-deprecating and mildly sardonic humor. However, this highly skilled narrator cannot rescue a catalogue of neuroses without much explanation or insight. W.A.G. (c) AudioFile 2011, Portland, Maine"