A Theory of Awkwardness
Author(s): Melissa Dahl
Original Publish Date: Feb 13, 2018
eAudio - unabridged
Audio (5.97 hours)
Product Number: Z100127943
Released: Feb 13, 2018
Business Term: Purchase
ISBN: #9780525499466
Narrator/s: Melissa Dahl
Publisher: Books on Tape
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New York magazine's "Science of Us" editor explains the compelling psychology of awkwardness, and asks: what if the moments that make us feel most awkward are actually valuable? Have you ever said goodbye to someone, only to discover that you're both walking in the same direction? Or had your next thought fly out of your brain in the middle of a presentation? Or accidentally liked an old photo on someone's Instagram or Facebook, thus revealing yourself to be a creepy social media stalker? Melissa Dahl, editor of New York magazine's "Science of Us" website, has. After a lifetime of cringing, she became intrigued by awkwardness: a universal but underappreciated emotion. In this witty and compassionate book, Dahl explores the oddest, cringiest corners of our world. She chats with strangers on the busy New York City subway, goes on awkward friend dates using a "Tinder-for-friendship" app, takes improv comedy lessons, and even reads aloud from her (highly embarrassing!) middle school diary to a crowd of strangers. After all of that, she realizes: Awkward moments are opportunities to test yourself. When everyone else is pretending to have it under control, you can be a little braver and grow a little bigger—while remaining true to your awkward self. And along the way, you might find that awkward moments unite us in our mutual human ridiculousness.

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Author(s): Melissa Dahl
Product Number EB00705586
Released: Feb 13, 2018
Business Term: 2 Year
Publisher: Portfolio
ISBN: #9780735211643

Professional reviews

"Melissa Dahl, a self-confessed sufferer of many awkward moments, takes a dive into the science behind awkwardness and cringeworthy moments. Happily, she also discusses how to develop the tools to counteract those feelings of self-consciousness and shame. Her narration is feminine and down-to-earth, with some moments of adolescent intonation when portraying her younger herself. While Dahl isn't a professional narrator, her performance is pleasant and reasonably paced, and the material is engaging and well researched. She concentrates on both personal anecdotes of self-conscious travails and scientific studies that focus on identifying the basis of that cringe-y feeling and ways to combat it. The result is both fun and enlightening. S.E.G. © AudioFile 2018, Portland, Maine"

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