RISING STAR Gorgeous young widow seeks man. Good looks a plus! After four dateless years, why were men suddenly sending Ellen Lantry seductive messages and red roses? Including dreamy-eyed Simon Miller, who offered her a birthday evening of dance, champagne and chocolate mousse. Instead, Ellen celebrated with her cat, a TV dinner and Casablanca on the VCR. But.was that her dead husband sitting in Rick's CafE? Before her eyes Abel appeared in the flesh-on a mission to find her a man, thanks to his long-distance personal ad-and he'd narrowed her choices to five! But how was she supposed to start a romance with her dead husband looking over her shoulder?